cHenG&LieM’s fa|rytaLe

Ok, feeling bored, so I’ve decided to write on a rather weird terminology…"OPEN RELATIONSHIP". What exactly is that?!?!?! Call me traditional, but in my past 20++ years (YES, i know im old), never once have i heard of that word…..UNTIL RECENTLY…In fact, i find it rather disturbing…and whoever even thought about using that term disgusts me.

Well, a little birdie told me that the term open relationship means that e.g. a gal can have a relationship with a guy, but she can still go around dating other guyz. An INTIMATE kind of dating i might add… But why would gals want to do that??? By calling it an ‘open relationship’, does it mean that the gal has the right to spread their legs to any guy and will not be classified a SLUT??? Wishfull thinking I reckon. Using different terms to justify ur actions does not make it right. U are what u are, using different tactics to try cover ur actions are useless. If you are in a relationship but u think that you have the right to go date other guyz, isnt it obvious to u that u are not even worthy of the relationship. Have the gutz to break it off then start a new relationship. Then perhaps, u will gain some dignity and self worth.

P.S. The above does not depict my relationship or have anything to do with it. It’s just something that I heard from someone, and got me pretty ticked off. But I’m sure not everyone are like that, just a few bad apples =) I still believe the world is still full of love and rainbows…

Been sooooo long since I updated my posts!!! Hehe never really had time…been really bz. Busy with what you might ask…ehehhe since I am currently an official BUM..well, been bz learning and experiencing being a housewife =) OF COURSE I am not going to be a housewife, my parents would kill me, years of education down the drain..but at this moment in time, I want to experience what life would be like as a housewifey! (actually its an excuse since I havent found a job yet =)

For those wondering, being a housewife is actually pretty fullfilling!!! In the past, I always thought to myself, how can women be housewives and just cook and clean all day?? Well, I think I have actually found the answer…The reason why women can do that is because they love their husband so much that they want to prepare the best food for them when they return from a hard day of work. Also, preparing them yummy lunch boxes to take to work so that while they’re eating, they will miss you!! HeHe Dun know if you’ll agree but that’s what I think.

Well, since I haven’t poison him yet, he is probably enjoying my food keke. But he DID say my cooking is really yummy now after I picked up some tips from his mum and sister..hehehe Oh well!!!! That’s my life!!! Enjoying my life as a Houswife Bum………………but not for long =(